You always fight over small purchases
An $80 purchase ends up feeling like a betrayal, even though the problem was never just the amount.
New practical ebook for couples
Stop Fighting About Money: Build a Shared Plan With Your Partner in One Weekend
"The 7 Conversations" walks you through a step-by-step structure so you and your partner can talk about money without improvising, without blame, and without turning every purchase into an endless argument.
This isn't another budgeting book. It's a structured guide so that in just one weekend you define clear rules, real agreements, and a follow-up ritual you can actually sustain.
- 7 guided conversations with specific questions
- Templates for agreements and couple decisions
- 60-day guarantee if you don't notice a real difference
The real problem
You're not fighting about the $80, the app, or the credit card
You're fighting because you never had the right conversation, at the right time, with a structure that actually helped you understand each other.
That's why the apps get abandoned, the spreadsheets die, and the phrase "we'll talk about money later" ends in yet another fight.
This ebook changes that: it gives you a clear sequence for talking about family history, fears, spending rules, splitting shared expenses, disagreements, and check-in rituals.
Warning signs
If any of this sounds like you, this book was written for your relationship
Most couples don't need more information. They need a simple system to talk about money without hurting each other in the process.
You have no clear rules
You don't know what needs a heads-up, what doesn't, how much each person can spend freely, or how to decide on shared expenses.
Talking about money drains you
You start fine, but within 10 minutes you're exhausted, defensive, or looking for an exit from the conversation.
One saves, the other wants to enjoy
You feel like you're on opposite sides because you never defined what "enough" means for both of you.
You don't know how to split shared costs
50/50, proportional, joint account, or common fund: everything feels confusing and ends up breeding resentment.
You make plans but can't stick to them
You're missing a short, clear, sustainable check-in ritual so your agreements don't die after two weeks.
The method
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The 7 Conversations Method
It's not a course. Not an app. Not therapy. It's a structured weekend with 7 conversations that have a beginning, a middle, and an end. Each one comes with a question script, a timer, and a decision template you both sign.
01
What Money Meant in the House I Grew Up In
Uncover the hidden emotional background noise your partner has been carrying without knowing it
Uncover the hidden emotional background noise your partner has been carrying without knowing it
02
What "Enough" Means to Each of Us
Stop fighting because you're using two different definitions of the same word
Stop fighting because you're using two different definitions of the same word
03
How We Actually Split What We Share
Choose between 3 administration methods (50/50, proportional, joint account) using a 5-question decision matrix
Choose between 3 administration methods (50/50, proportional, joint account) using a 5-question decision matrix
04
What Scares Us About Money
Name the fear, turn the volume down, and stop reacting to it blind
Name the fear, turn the volume down, and stop reacting to it blind
05
What We'll Spend Extravagantly On and What We Won't (The Rich Life)
Build the life you actually want to buy with money, together
Build the life you actually want to buy with money, together
06
What We Do When We Disagree About a Specific Purchase
The 4-step protocol that ends the 11 PM Best Buy fight
The 4-step protocol that ends the 11 PM Best Buy fight
07
Our Money Check-In Ritual — When, How Often, What We Talk About
The fixed calendar cadence that keeps the plan alive past week six
The fixed calendar cadence that keeps the plan alive past week six
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Why it works
It doesn't ask you to be perfect. It gives you a usable structure.
The book is designed for a real Saturday and Sunday: with exhaustion, limited time, and the emotions that actually surface when you talk about money.
Instead of asking for infinite discipline, it gives you pre-written questions, emotional safety rules, decision templates, and a logical sequence so you never have to improvise.
That changes everything: because a couple doesn't need to "talk more about money" — they need to talk better about money.
What you'll discover
Skip months of trial and error
You're not just buying a PDF. You're buying a complete structure to stop improvising, talk about money better, and walk away with a usable plan starting this very weekend.
- The 7 Conversations — main ebook (PDF, 45-50 pages)$47 USD
- Every fill-in decision template for all 7 conversations$17 USD
- The 15-minute action guide for every conversation$10 USD
- The 60-day implementation plan$17 USD
- Instant PDF delivery + lifetime updates$9 USD
Total value$100 USD
Today, launch price$23 USD
(approximately in your local currency at today's exchange rate)
Backed by research
Not opinion — evidence
The 7 Conversations Method is built on decades of couples research, money psychology, and negotiation science.
★★★★★
Dr. John Gottman
50 years studying couples. His research shows stable couples have 5 positive interactions for every 1 negative. Couples in crisis: 0.8 to 1.
Gottman Institute
★★★★★
Dr. Dan Siegel
His "name it to tame it" principle: putting a verbal label on an intense emotion calms the emotional brain and restores rationality.
Neuropsychiatrist, UCLA
★★★★★
Fidelity 2021 Study
1 in 5 couples says money is their biggest relationship problem — and that number is the same across all income levels.
Fidelity Investments
Sunday evening
3 things you don't have yet
A written plan
One or two pages signed by both of you with clear rules on shared expenses, personal spending, joint decisions, and next steps.
A shared vocabulary
A much faster way to recognize what's triggering the fight and speak from that place, without spending two hours going in circles.
A sustainable rhythm
A short, fixed, calendared check-in so the system doesn't depend on memory, willpower, or available energy.
Ideal for
Who is this ebook for?
The more you recognize yourselves in these situations, the more useful this will be.
Couples who already live together
And feel like money has become a constant source of tension, confusion, or repeated micro-fights.
Couples about to move in together
Who want to agree on rules before sharing a home, to avoid months of unnecessary friction.
Couples with unequal incomes
Who don't know whether to split 50/50, proportionally, or with a common fund that feels fair to both.
Couples tired of winging it
Who want structure, clarity, and a simple plan they can actually sustain.
60
days
The 60-Day Guarantee: The Fight Test
This isn't the usual "30 days, money back, no questions asked." It's something different. I call it the Fight Test, and here's how it works:
Over the next 60 days, you run the 7 conversations with your partner, in the order they're written. If by the time you finish the seventh, you haven't had a single money fight that was shorter and calmer than the ones you used to have, you email the address at the end of the book, and I refund you 100%.
No forms. No "prove it." No exit survey. No chatbot. Just a two-line email to the address inside the book, and the refund clears in 48 hours.
Why a guarantee this long and this generous? Because I'm confident in what I wrote. And because, in practice, almost nobody asks for it, because the book works.
Simple as that. I'm taking the risk, not you.
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FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Clear your doubts before you start and find out if this book is right for you right now.
My partner isn't going to want to do this with me. So what's the point of buying it?
That's the most common objection, and the book was built with you in mind. The "How to Use This Book" chapter includes the exact word-for-word script for inviting your partner without it sounding like an ambush. It starts with "it's getting to me" instead of "you're doing it wrong," and it names a specific weekend instead of "sometime." In practice, when the invite is framed this way, the answer is almost always yes. Read the book first yourself, then use the script. If they still say no, respect that, give it a month, and offer the weekend again. That's not failure — that's how it works.
Every time we try to talk about money we end up fighting. Why would this be different?
Because every other time, you tried it without a structure. This book gives you a script, a timer, a pause word, an emotional flooding check, and a decision template. You're not improvising — you're running a playbook. Dr. Gottman's research is clear: couples don't stop fighting because they become more mature. They stop fighting because they have a container. This book is the container.
We don't make enough money for this to matter. Isn't this a book for couples with money?
No. This book works exactly the same for a couple making $45K a year as it does for a couple making $150K. The fights are the same: they're about fairness, fear, and feeling heard, not about the numbers. The Fidelity 2021 study actually found that 1 in 5 couples say money is their biggest problem — and that number is the same in every income bracket. This isn't a budgeting book. It's a conversation book.
What format does the book come in?
High-quality PDF, optimized for reading on phone, tablet, laptop, or printed paper. You get it by email immediately after checkout, and it lives in your account forever. You can print it. You can throw it into Kindle. You can read it with your partner sitting next to you at the kitchen table — which is what I'd recommend.
How does delivery work? Do I have to wait?
You order, you pay, and within 60 seconds you get an email with a download button. If the email doesn't show up, check spam first — and if it's still missing, email us and we'll send it manually within 24 hours.
Do I need a finance background to understand this?
No. The book assumes you know nothing technical and doesn't ask you to. You won't learn how to invest. You won't calculate debt ratios. There are no spreadsheets to fill out. The only "numbers" you need are your approximate monthly income and your partner's. Everything else is structured conversation.
Is this just a budgeting book in disguise?
No. Budgeting books tell you what to do with the money. This book gives you the structured conversation you have to have BEFORE you can even agree on what to do with the money. If it were a budgeting book, it would already be on your nightstand next to all the others you quit.
If I ask for a refund, is it going to be weird?
No. You send a two-line email to the address at the end of the book, and within 48 hours the money is back on your card. No form, no call, no survey. You owe me nothing. You can keep the downloaded PDF. I trust the book, and I trust you.
Start this weekend
The longer you put it off, the more it costs in energy, time, and wear on the relationship
You don't need to wait for the next fight to start talking about money better. Get the ebook, block a Saturday and a Sunday, and build a plan you can actually sustain.
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